Elon Musk’s estranged relationship with his transgender daughter exposes a dark trend of familial divide in the age of anti-trans politics
Support trulyindependent journalismFind out moreCloseOur mission is to deliver unbiased, fact-based reporting that holds power to account and exposes the truth.Whether $5 or $50, every contribution counts.Support us to deliver journalism without an agenda.Louise ThomasEditorThis week, the world’s richest person launched an unseemly public attack on his estranged transgender daughter.In an interview released on Monday, Elon Musk – electric car entrepreneur, US government rocket contractor, and outright owner of the social media service X (formerly Twitter) – claimed that his daughter Vivian Wilson’s transition was the trigger for his recent right-wing turn.”Essentially… my son is dead,” said Musk. “Killed by the woke mind virus. So I vowed to destroy the woke mind virus after that. And we’re making some progress.”Wilson soon fired back on the rival social network Threads and in an interview with NBC News, saying that Musk was “lying blatantly” about her childhood and of bullying her for expressing femininity. (The Independent has contacted Musk for comment, via his companies.)For many trans people, these events were sad but not surprising. That is because all too many have witnessed their family members’ politics becoming more extreme and more anti-trans since they came out.Here are the stories of three trans and non-binary people who spoke to The Independent about their experiences. Their identities and certain other details have been blurred, and their answers have been edited for length and clarity.In most cases, their family members’ political shift didn’t come from nowhere; some had a prior interest in anti-trans politics. But all our interviewees said that things had got worse since their transition began.Elon Musk arrives for Israeli prime minister Benjamin Netanyahu’s speech to Congress on July 24, 2024 More